<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070</id><updated>2012-02-16T02:42:23.956-07:00</updated><category term='Introduction'/><category term='A.J.'/><category term='10-29-09 Peachtree Update'/><category term='Moni'/><category term='9-28-09 Mashonda vs. Alicia'/><category term='11-11-09 Desperately Seeking SELF'/><category term='9-3-09 Boom Boom POW'/><category term='9-17-09 Puppy Dog Jumpoff'/><category term='9-24-09 Groom&apos;s Ex Fling'/><category term='You Have Been Told'/><category term='10-16-09 Keith Bardwell has black friends'/><category term='KinaGoLightly'/><category term='10-19-09 Falcon...take Flight.'/><category term='Kids-NO BRAIN'/><category term='9-10-09 Political Push Back'/><category term='9-4-09 Free for all Friday'/><category term='10-6-09 Pretty Girls'/><category term='10-7-09 House'/><category term='ItsJayRabBaby'/><category term='9-11-09 Free for All Friday'/><category term='10-7-09 What About Dave'/><category term='9-14-09 The Green-Eyed Monster'/><category term='9-22-09 Michael Steele'/><category term='Friends&apos; Inbox'/><category term='9-2-09 30+ and Experienced'/><category term='8-27-09 So-So Hood and The Fairly Odd-Parents'/><category term='9-1-09 25 and Holding'/><category term='9-23-09 Save Youth Court'/><category term='8-31-09 Miner&apos;s Vs Garrity'/><category term='8-9-09 Mr. She Started It'/><category term='9-14-09 Massive Monday Weekend Redux'/><category term='9-25-09 Free for all Friday'/><category term='10-9-09 Mommy Dearest'/><category term='9-16-09 Sorry'/><category term='Car'/><category term='8-26-09 Mr. Californication'/><category term='9-21-09 Fatty Fatty 2 x 4'/><category term='10-14-09 The Peachtree or Peachpit?'/><category term='Fitness Fridays'/><title type='text'>What Your Friend's Won't Tell You...WE WILL!   YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD</title><subtitle type='html'>You have just entered the world of the Friends. Every point of view you could imagine, every walk of life you could take, every situation you could ever dream of. Leave your questions-but if you have a fear of what's real and true-this might not be the place for you.  Come in Meet the REAL Friends that you have ALWAYS needed.
What you need to be told?  It will happen here.  The Friend's assure you:  YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>34</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1511987449180349641</id><published>2009-12-08T13:10:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-08T13:21:59.498-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Tiger,Tiger Burning Bright!!</title><summary type='text'>It's me AJ checking in. I was asked today while I was in line at the supermarket, what I thought of this whole Tiger Woods mess. I replied that I didn't think that HE put much thought into his marriage or his infidelity. The person seemed amused and bemused by my response.All these women are coming out of the woodwork like so many skeletons in an unkempt closet!Reporters staked out in front of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1511987449180349641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/12/tigertiger-burning-bright.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1511987449180349641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1511987449180349641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/12/tigertiger-burning-bright.html' title='Tiger,Tiger Burning Bright!!'/><author><name>a.jamiestarr</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08832657170860171928</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_uznw8E6I2ls/SpWgl3cXzHI/AAAAAAAAABI/AK0bC1YoPis/S220/blogpic.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-6114785564752102686</id><published>2009-11-11T13:20:00.008-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-11T14:24:24.025-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='11-11-09 Desperately Seeking SELF'/><title type='text'>The Friends' Community Service Project #3,457,987:  Desperate Seeking Someone's</title><summary type='text'>Today, the Friends' are going to take on a topic that seems to be flooding them all around. The Friends' are peers in many different ways. All of them professional professionalS in what they do, seeking to do better, be better, and get better. Some of the Friends' are newlyweds, some are in relationships, and some are single. But not ONE of them are DESPERATE!


Dictionary.com defines it as such:</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/6114785564752102686/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/11/friends-community-service-project.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6114785564752102686'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6114785564752102686'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/11/friends-community-service-project.html' title='The Friends&apos; Community Service Project #3,457,987:  Desperate Seeking Someone&apos;s'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7866147819633600974</id><published>2009-11-11T11:54:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-11T11:55:45.593-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Friends' Salute the Veterans of Yesterday, Today, And Tomorrow</title><summary type='text'>The Friends' would be remiss to not acknowledge and thank the Veterans of our United States.  We thank you for the sacrifices that you have made for our freedom.  We thank you for protecting our families, as you left yours behind.  We thank you for giving your life so that we may live ours without fear.  We thank you for putting country first, and self behind.  There are not enough words of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7866147819633600974/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/11/friends-salute-veterans-of-yesterday.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7866147819633600974'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7866147819633600974'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/11/friends-salute-veterans-of-yesterday.html' title='The Friends&apos; Salute the Veterans of Yesterday, Today, And Tomorrow'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-2170871512666648970</id><published>2009-10-29T10:56:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-29T11:01:04.500-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-29-09 Peachtree Update'/><title type='text'>The FRIEND'S called and have been ANSWERED!  Update on the Peachtree!</title><summary type='text'>About two weeks ago The Friend's initiated their first call to action and gathered reviews on the Peachtree restaurant in Kansas City after a friend of the Friend's had a bad experience there for her birthday.  We gathered all our information and we HOPED that by being a voice, there would be some action. We received many comments on Twitter and Facebook about similar experiences, some shocked </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/2170871512666648970/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-called-and-have-been-answered.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/2170871512666648970'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/2170871512666648970'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-called-and-have-been-answered.html' title='The FRIEND&apos;S called and have been ANSWERED!  Update on the Peachtree!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1499097617492852165</id><published>2009-10-19T14:26:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T14:29:17.308-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-19-09 Falcon...take Flight.'/><title type='text'>Falcon &amp; Co...The Friends'  would like a word...</title><summary type='text'>Yesterday, while all were enjoying a normal Wednesday afternoon, news of a runaway homemade hot air balloon made the air waves.  The story of a young boy who had climbed in a hot air balloon project made by the family, and a sibling reported he was in it as it floated away.  Immediately, as the news was being covered and streamed, local agencies dispatched all their available units to follow this</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1499097617492852165/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/falcon-cothe-friends-would-like-word.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1499097617492852165'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1499097617492852165'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/falcon-cothe-friends-would-like-word.html' title='Falcon &amp; Co...The Friends&apos;  would like a word...'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-600879864810465619</id><published>2009-10-16T10:40:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T10:43:55.955-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-16-09 Keith Bardwell has black friends'/><title type='text'>Keith Bardwell has black friends...but not over here!</title><summary type='text'>Civil rights advocates-MOUNT UP!

Justice Keith Bardwell of Tangipahoa Parish's 8th Ward refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple.  Upon calling his office, Beth Humphrey was ASKED if the license was for an interracial marriage because Bardwell does NOT sign off on them.  In response, Bardwell said "I'm not racist.  I do ceremonies for black couples right here in my house.  My</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/600879864810465619/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/keith-bardwell-has-black-friendsbut-not.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/600879864810465619'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/600879864810465619'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/keith-bardwell-has-black-friendsbut-not.html' title='Keith Bardwell has black friends...but not over here!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-848124946386067764</id><published>2009-10-14T15:02:00.006-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T15:20:59.658-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-14-09 The Peachtree or Peachpit?'/><title type='text'>A Friends' Review-and CALL TO ACTION:  The Peachtree Restaurant-Let us tell you about it!</title><summary type='text'>The Peachtree Restaurant in Kansas City is a well known soul food restaurant franchise.  In 2007, it was announced that in the makeover of the Kansas City Power and Light District, the Peachtree would move their establishment to this prime downtown location.  Roy Wilmore, General Manager and heir to the family business said
"The Peachtree Restaurant has been my parents' shared passion for years, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/848124946386067764/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-review-peachtree-restaurant-let.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/848124946386067764'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/848124946386067764'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-review-peachtree-restaurant-let.html' title='A Friends&apos; Review-and CALL TO ACTION:  The Peachtree Restaurant-Let us tell you about it!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7628768677281043371</id><published>2009-10-09T09:16:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-09T09:17:57.674-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-9-09 Mommy Dearest'/><title type='text'>The Friends' Inbox-10-9-09-Mommy Dearest??</title><summary type='text'>Sent via e-mail submission:

Date: Thu, Oct 8, 2009 at 10:11 AM

Subject: Half siblings

To: wyfwtu@gmail.com

Question:

My parents were divorced when I was 10 (16 yrs ago). They got along


much better after divorced and still have a good relationship. My dad


recently got married to a woman that is only 3 yrs older than me.


First thing, she doesn't think I should call her by her name since </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7628768677281043371/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-inbox-10-9-09-mommy-dearest.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7628768677281043371'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7628768677281043371'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-inbox-10-9-09-mommy-dearest.html' title='The Friends&apos; Inbox-10-9-09-Mommy Dearest??'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-3924827940023672076</id><published>2009-10-07T16:27:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-07T16:29:59.015-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-7-09 House'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kids-NO BRAIN'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Car'/><title type='text'>The Friends' Inbox 10-7-09-House, Car, Kids...now you need a BRAIN!</title><summary type='text'>From the Friends' Inbox 10-7-09:

Regarding your comments that the other woman is so wrong and FREE I have to tell you that isn't always the case. I have been in a relationship with a married man for 6 years. We have two children together and his wife has no idea. He is a very well paid professional man and he takes very good care of me and my kids. I don't even work. His wife is unable to have </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/3924827940023672076/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-inbox-10-7-09-house-car-kidsnow.html#comment-form' title='16 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3924827940023672076'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3924827940023672076'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/friends-inbox-10-7-09-house-car-kidsnow.html' title='The Friends&apos; Inbox 10-7-09-House, Car, Kids...now you need a BRAIN!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>16</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-4271204156887314280</id><published>2009-10-07T09:45:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-07T09:45:33.812-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-7-09 What About Dave'/><title type='text'>What about Dave??</title><summary type='text'>On Thursday, October 1, 2009, David Letterman shocked many when he came clean about affairs that he had had with female staffers.  All of this, because an ex-staff member, Robert Halderman, threatened to go public with the allegations unless he was paid $2 Million dollars.  An accusation (and arrest) that attorney's for Halderman say is preposterous.  

So, in order to keep it from leaking to the</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/4271204156887314280/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/what-about-dave.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4271204156887314280'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4271204156887314280'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/what-about-dave.html' title='What about Dave??'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-3608508083176262848</id><published>2009-10-06T07:52:00.010-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-06T10:03:53.943-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10-6-09 Pretty Girls'/><title type='text'>Pretty Girl=Bad Friend?</title><summary type='text'>The following article appeared on CNN, by Jessica Wakeman:

Pretty women can be hard to be friends with

Blame my older sister, the kindergarten teacher, but I believe in the Golden Rule. Whether you're my boss, my intern, my boyfriend or my third-cousin-twice-removed, I will treat you with the same amount of respect as everyone else.


Why am I wired this way? Other kids were really cruel to me </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/3608508083176262848/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/pretty-girlbad-friend.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3608508083176262848'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3608508083176262848'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/10/pretty-girlbad-friend.html' title='Pretty Girl=Bad Friend?'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-5752724707330397398</id><published>2009-09-28T10:57:00.005-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-28T13:43:08.626-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-28-09 Mashonda vs. Alicia'/><title type='text'>The Friends Inbox-Mashonda vs. Alicia, Who's got the Beatz??</title><summary type='text'>From The Friends' Inbox 9-28:

What do you guys have to say about the Alicia+Mashonda+Swizz Beatz Love triangle?

Who's wrong?


I am not mad at Mashonda. Folks always saying the spouse who has been cheated on needs to take the high road. But if Alicia Keys won't be a woman and talk to her, she did what she needed to do to get her attention. And she has a right to want to speak with Alicia who </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/5752724707330397398/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-mashonda-vs-alicia.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5752724707330397398'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5752724707330397398'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-mashonda-vs-alicia.html' title='The Friends Inbox-Mashonda vs. Alicia, Who&apos;s got the Beatz??'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-8654697340593935955</id><published>2009-09-25T09:32:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-25T09:32:25.121-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-25-09 Free for all Friday'/><title type='text'>Fitness, Fabulous Features, Free for ALL FRIDAY!!!!</title><summary type='text'>Welcome to Fitness Friday, Fabulous Feature Friday, and most importantly-FREE FOR ALL FRIDAY's!!

Check out what The Friend's are doing in their fitness regime!!

Moni
Current Workout Schedule:  My schedule isn't nearly what it SHOULD be!  Basically doing boot camp Tues, Thurs, and Sat and walking.  But, I was pretty much off a whole week when my little one got sick!

Workout goals: (Weight loss,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/8654697340593935955/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/fitness-fabulous-features-free-for-all.html#comment-form' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8654697340593935955'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8654697340593935955'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/fitness-fabulous-features-free-for-all.html' title='Fitness, Fabulous Features, Free for ALL FRIDAY!!!!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-8871783822510378006</id><published>2009-09-24T10:28:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-24T10:28:01.600-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-24-09 Groom&apos;s Ex Fling'/><title type='text'>The Friends Inbox-The Case of the Groom &amp; the Bride(smaid)</title><summary type='text'>From The Friends Inbox via anonymous e-mail submission:


I am going to be in a wedding of a girl that I knew from high school in December. I don't live in the same state that she does, but she found me on facebook and we have been talking non stop so I was really excited that she asked me to be in her wedding. But I have a problem.
I had a sexual relationship with her fiance'. This was previous </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/8871783822510378006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-case-of-groom-bridesmaid.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8871783822510378006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8871783822510378006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-case-of-groom-bridesmaid.html' title='The Friends Inbox-The Case of the Groom &amp; the Bride(smaid)'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-278065668549233700</id><published>2009-09-23T11:05:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-23T11:12:12.237-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-23-09 Save Youth Court'/><title type='text'>The Friends challenge YOU to be a voice for DC Youth Court!</title><summary type='text'>The following message was posted on the Time Dollar Youth Court's home page:
SAVE YOUTH COURT!!!
We have been denied funding for the next fiscal year. Unless action is taken, we will be FORCED TO SHUT DOWN OCTOBER 1st 


During these bleak economic times, hard decisions have to be made by the Mayor about how to spend DC dollars; however, we need a commitment to our youth. 


We are asking you to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/278065668549233700/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-challenge-you-to-be-voice-for.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/278065668549233700'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/278065668549233700'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-challenge-you-to-be-voice-for.html' title='The Friends challenge YOU to be a voice for DC Youth Court!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-4905885114634898964</id><published>2009-09-22T13:50:00.005-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-23T11:28:32.263-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-22-09 Michael Steele'/><title type='text'>Mr. Steele-The Friend's would like a word please</title><summary type='text'>Michael S. Steele,

Before The Friends start in on you, we'd like to just point out a few things before we get into the obvious reasons why we have a thing or two-hundred to tell you.  It is quite interesting that you and our President have quite a few things in common.  Growing up in a home with parents separated by divorce, struggling as your mother's worked to provide a lifestyle for you, and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/4905885114634898964/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/mr-steele-friends-would-like-word.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4905885114634898964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4905885114634898964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/mr-steele-friends-would-like-word.html' title='Mr. Steele-The Friend&apos;s would like a word please'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1404311134200063140</id><published>2009-09-21T12:22:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-21T12:52:16.036-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-21-09 Fatty Fatty 2 x 4'/><title type='text'>The Friends' Inbox-Fatty Fatty 2 x 4</title><summary type='text'>From The Friends' Inbox submitted 9/18:

Friends, 

This is taken from Ask Reddit:
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/9lwbs/im_an_overweight_25_year_old_female_who_wants_to/

As stated in the title, I'm a 25 year old female that's pretty overweight. Since I'm tall, people don't usually suspect that I weigh as much as I do (for full disclosure, I'm 5'10" and weigh about 350lbs). I often </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1404311134200063140/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-fatty-fatty-2-x-4.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1404311134200063140'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1404311134200063140'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-fatty-fatty-2-x-4.html' title='The Friends&apos; Inbox-Fatty Fatty 2 x 4'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-3485745305966536639</id><published>2009-09-17T10:38:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-17T10:41:22.803-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-17-09 Puppy Dog Jumpoff'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Friends&apos; Inbox'/><title type='text'>The Friends' Inbox-The Case of the Puppy-Dog Jumpoff</title><summary type='text'>From the Friends' Inbox 9-16-09:

Friends:

I need help deciding if I should kick a friend of mine off of my
radar! I have been friends with her for 8 years. I have stuck with
her through a divorce, an abusive relationship, a marriage, another
divorce, and a series of up and down "jump-off" deals. In my opinion,
she gives too much of herself TOO SOON. For instance, she started
dating a guy that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/3485745305966536639/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-case-of-puppy-dog-jumpoff.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3485745305966536639'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3485745305966536639'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-case-of-puppy-dog-jumpoff.html' title='The Friends&apos; Inbox-The Case of the Puppy-Dog Jumpoff'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7338021022216355514</id><published>2009-09-16T10:27:00.097-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-16T17:27:46.470-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-16-09 Sorry'/><title type='text'>I'm Sorry You're Sorry that We're Sorry that you ARE SORRY!</title><summary type='text'>If we had to put a dollar amount on an apology these days, it's likely that you would owe money to make it a positive value.  America: the land of the free, the home of the brave, and the nesting place for disrespect.  What happened to the Golden Rule?  Has it rusted?  Surely we are NOT doing unto others as we would have them do unto us.

Let's replay some of the latest current events:

The one </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7338021022216355514/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/im-sorry-youre-sorry-that-were-sorry.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7338021022216355514'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7338021022216355514'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/im-sorry-youre-sorry-that-were-sorry.html' title='I&apos;m Sorry You&apos;re Sorry that We&apos;re Sorry that you ARE SORRY!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1175210623915695576</id><published>2009-09-14T14:44:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-16T09:14:47.946-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-14-09 The Green-Eyed Monster'/><title type='text'>The Friend's Inbox-The Green-Eyed Monster</title><summary type='text'>From the Friend's Inbox-9/11/2009:

I have a friend who is mixed. She's light with green eyes and long hair. Very pretty girl. Now I love her to death but she has gotten it in her head that black women give her dirty looks b/c she's light. Frankly, I'm tired of hearing it. I can give u several examples but will only give you two that stand out. This past Feb we went to an AKA social. All the AKAs</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1175210623915695576/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-green-eyed-monster.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1175210623915695576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1175210623915695576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-green-eyed-monster.html' title='The Friend&apos;s Inbox-The Green-Eyed Monster'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1975005522742340449</id><published>2009-09-14T09:18:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T14:32:32.878-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-14-09 Massive Monday Weekend Redux'/><title type='text'>The Friend's &amp; the MASSIVE Monday Weekend Redux!</title><summary type='text'>What a busy weekend friends!!

All were buzzing about so many things that the friends will be speaking on many weekend events as they so choose!

If you missed the Jay-Z concert and 9/11 benefit on FUSE on Friday Evening-find it online and WATCH!
What other 9/11 tributes were worthy of recognition where you are? 

And, the Caster Semenya case has people on both sides of the fence (No pun intended</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1975005522742340449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-massive-monday-weekend-redux.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1975005522742340449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1975005522742340449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-massive-monday-weekend-redux.html' title='The Friend&apos;s &amp; the MASSIVE Monday Weekend Redux!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-1496793904415164343</id><published>2009-09-11T09:22:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-11T09:22:50.522-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-11-09 Free for All Friday'/><title type='text'>Free for All Friday!!</title><summary type='text'>Welcome FRIENDS!!

It's Free for All Friday!!

To the comment section we go!

We will NEVER forget.  Where were you on 9/11?  Do you think America can find that same unity?



Have a rant about labor day weekend?

How do you feel about Obama's address to the schoolchildren?  Were your children or children in your area allowed to watch??  What further action are YOU taking?

What's your position </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/1496793904415164343/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/free-for-all-friday_11.html#comment-form' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1496793904415164343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/1496793904415164343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/free-for-all-friday_11.html' title='Free for All Friday!!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1040/1358449852_7529b04bd8_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-6066957841430241413</id><published>2009-09-10T11:46:00.008-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-10T13:39:21.673-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-10-09 Political Push Back'/><title type='text'>The Political PUSH-BACK featuring the FRIENDS!!</title><summary type='text'>

It's been quite a volatile week in the arena of politics hasn't it?

First-we don't want to let our president address our CHILDREN?  We had schools not showing it, sending home permission slips, or letting it be shown to "select" students at schools all over the nation.  Forget the grown ups-opinions have been made and lines have been drawn, but WHAT are we showing our children?  The President </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/6066957841430241413/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/political-push-back-featuring-friends.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6066957841430241413'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6066957841430241413'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/political-push-back-featuring-friends.html' title='The Political PUSH-BACK featuring the FRIENDS!!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-8039097801211562194</id><published>2009-09-10T09:24:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-10T09:24:29.924-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='8-9-09 Mr. She Started It'/><title type='text'>The Friends Inbox-The Strawberry Letter 9-8-09</title><summary type='text'>Friends...


PLEASE speak on this strawberry letter!


Subject: She started it, I don�t know how to end it! 
  
Good morning to the morning crew. I got an issue that my lady started &amp; I now I don\'t know what to do. Basically, one day my lady ask me what was my sexual fantasy. As any man would say, to be with two women at one time was my response. That night she shows up at my place with a lady </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/8039097801211562194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-strawberry-letter-9-8-09.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8039097801211562194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/8039097801211562194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-strawberry-letter-9-8-09.html' title='The Friends Inbox-The Strawberry Letter 9-8-09'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-3807663671124511964</id><published>2009-09-04T09:30:00.007-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T12:46:15.282-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-4-09 Free for all Friday'/><title type='text'>Free for All Friday!!</title><summary type='text'>Welcome to Free for all Friday!  You can vent about the events of the past week in the news, in life, just ANYTHING.  No Fonts today-just a free for all.Who needs to be told?!!  Submit to WYFWTU@gmail.com or enter your submission right here on the blog.  Your personal info will not be published unless requested.  Ready?  LET'S GO!!Check back throughout the day for updates to the FREE FOR ALL </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/3807663671124511964/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/free-for-all-friday.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3807663671124511964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/3807663671124511964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/free-for-all-friday.html' title='Free for All Friday!!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7501417364426839851</id><published>2009-09-03T09:15:00.006-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T10:26:47.330-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-3-09 Boom Boom POW'/><title type='text'>Roger Stephens-The FRIEND's Salute you...Mostly...</title><summary type='text'>
From the Associated Press: 
STONE MOUNTAIN, Ga. — Police say a 61-year-old man annoyed with a crying 2-year-old girl at a Walmart slapped the child several times after warning the toddler's mother, Sonya Mathews, to keep her quiet.


A police report says after the stranger hit the girl at least four times, he said: "See, I told you I would shut her up."

Roger Stephens of Stone Mountain is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7501417364426839851/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/roger-stephens-friends-salute-youkind.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7501417364426839851'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7501417364426839851'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/roger-stephens-friends-salute-youkind.html' title='Roger Stephens-The FRIEND&apos;s Salute you...Mostly...'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-5483359708490720315</id><published>2009-09-02T15:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T15:00:06.595-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-2-09 30+ and Experienced'/><title type='text'>The Friend's Inbox-30+ and Experienced</title><summary type='text'>Friends,




I have to give you mad love on the blog. After reading today's question I have to pose one of my own to represent for the men.


Mr. Superstar makes a point to say that this gentlemen probably has his stuff together. So, if that is true and if he did in fact want to bed the lady in question-would he be wrong for now leaving her alone because he didn't get any?


Would he be wrong for</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/5483359708490720315/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-30-and-experienced.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5483359708490720315'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5483359708490720315'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-30-and-experienced.html' title='The Friend&apos;s Inbox-30+ and Experienced'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7764722704059994009</id><published>2009-09-01T10:31:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T10:31:25.735-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='9-1-09 25 and Holding'/><title type='text'>The Friend's Inbox-25 &amp; Holding</title><summary type='text'>WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE APPROPRIATE TIME FRAME FOR A WOMAN TO WAIT BEFORE HAVING SEX WITH A MAN?

I MET A NICE GUY AND WE TALKED BACK AND FORTH FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS BEFORE WE WENT OUT ON A DATE.  I WAS FEELING HIM A LOT AND WE HAD GREAT CHEMISTRY BUT I DIDN\'T WANT HIM TO THINK I WAS FAST.  WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT BEING INTIMATE AND HAD PLAYFUL CHIT CHAT BACK AND FORTH BUT I THINK IF HE WANTS IT HE </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7764722704059994009/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-25-holding.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7764722704059994009'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7764722704059994009'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/09/friends-inbox-25-holding.html' title='The Friend&apos;s Inbox-25 &amp; Holding'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-9120097664689261634</id><published>2009-08-31T10:38:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T10:39:21.803-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='8-31-09 Miner&apos;s Vs Garrity'/><title type='text'>The Miner's who seek fool's gold!</title><summary type='text'>The following article was posted by Jennifer Fernicola in the Chicago Now blogroll.
Two adult children are suing their biological mother for intentional and  negligent infliction of emotional distress that they say occurred over a period  of more than 14 years.  
Steven A. Miner II is 21 years old and Kathryn R. Miner is 18.  Together,  they are suing their mother Kimberly A. Garrity in a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/9120097664689261634/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/miners-who-seek-fools-gold.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/9120097664689261634'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/9120097664689261634'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/miners-who-seek-fools-gold.html' title='The Miner&apos;s who seek fool&apos;s gold!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-5824659884557390758</id><published>2009-08-28T13:09:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T09:17:21.805-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='KinaGoLightly'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fitness Fridays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Moni'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ItsJayRabBaby'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='A.J.'/><title type='text'>Fitness Fridays</title><summary type='text'>The FRIENDS are not only outspoken, witty, and fabulous-we are REAL people too, dealing with REAL issues.  Fitness Fridays will let you know what our workout routines are, if any, and what we are trying to do!  We might be on the same plan as you!  Leave us your comments and questions in the comment section and let's get fit!!

Kina Go Lightly
Current Workout Schedule: 
-Trainer MWF
-Volleyball </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/5824659884557390758/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/fitness-fridays.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5824659884557390758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/5824659884557390758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/fitness-fridays.html' title='Fitness Fridays'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-6330025399624888758</id><published>2009-08-28T10:08:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T09:43:16.511-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='8-27-09 So-So Hood and The Fairly Odd-Parents'/><title type='text'>The Friends Inbox-Fairly ODD-parents??</title><summary type='text'>Dear Friends,

Question:  How do you deal with God-Parents that your spouse chose (and the rest of the family) that are hood?  Tacky?  Have questionable judgment??
What would you do if they wanted your kids to say overnight?
Anonymous (Via anonymous e-mail submission)

If you knew you would be out of town for an extended period, would you let these people have your keys to start your car? If not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/6330025399624888758/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/friends-inbox-fairly-odd-parents.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6330025399624888758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/6330025399624888758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/friends-inbox-fairly-odd-parents.html' title='The Friends Inbox-Fairly ODD-parents??'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-4365604962650218662</id><published>2009-08-27T08:54:00.005-06:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T14:16:57.540-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='8-26-09 Mr. Californication'/><title type='text'>The FRIENDS Inbox-The Husband Who Doesn't Want to be a Wife</title><summary type='text'>

Dear Friends,

I have been married for 5 years.  I have three sons that are 9, 5, and 1.  My wife also has an older daughter that is 16 that she let her mother adopt.  My wife decided to join the military and our family relocated to a new city.  Since she got back from basic training things have been different.  I was proud of my wife for losing a large amount of weight.  I thought she was sexy</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/4365604962650218662/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/friends-inbox-husband-who-doesnt-want.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4365604962650218662'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/4365604962650218662'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/friends-inbox-husband-who-doesnt-want.html' title='The FRIENDS Inbox-The Husband Who Doesn&apos;t Want to be a Wife'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7579667107837409840</id><published>2009-08-26T11:51:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-23T11:47:24.578-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='You Have Been Told'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Introduction'/><title type='text'>Get in with THE FRIENDS</title><summary type='text'>As much as we are outspoken, as much as we are professional, as much as we are who we are-we believe in doing things the right way!!

"What Your Friend's Won't Tell You" is a project that we are all excited about.  We are here to let our voices be heard in our own way with only one rule-LET IT BE TOLD!!

Your questions, concerns, and topic suggestions can be sent to us a WYFWTU@gmail.com.  We </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7579667107837409840/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/get-in-with-friends.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7579667107837409840'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7579667107837409840'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/get-in-with-friends.html' title='Get in with THE FRIENDS'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-972397268008562070.post-7917381935777435818</id><published>2009-08-25T15:24:00.040-06:00</published><updated>2009-09-23T10:26:28.568-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Meet Your New Friends!</title><summary type='text'>Well it is certainly a pleasure to have you here with us, and we hope that you continue to read with us, share with us, laugh with us, cry with us, and in the end-get TOLD!

"What Your Friend's Won't Tell You" was in the making for quite some time amongst the FRIENDS CREW sharing all of life's many experiences.  Without further adieu, we introduce ourselves to you, the friends that will tell you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/feeds/7917381935777435818/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/meet-your-new-friends.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7917381935777435818'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/972397268008562070/posts/default/7917381935777435818'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatyouneedtobetold.blogspot.com/2009/08/meet-your-new-friends.html' title='Meet Your New Friends!'/><author><name>You Have Been TOLD</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11371218062515192512</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lGOWxglwvIQ/SpgsXSEo1_I/AAAAAAAAABg/p-LFbRPDWZg/S220/8-friends.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
